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Elder abuse: Their patients - our parents!Elder Abuse commonly refers to the physical or mental abuse of our parents, or of the failure for any reason to provide kind and humane supportive care and treatment. This abuse and neglect frequently occurs in our parents own homes, or in the homes of their family members, and when this occurs we are shocked, saddened or outraged. But what are we to think when this abuse and neglect occurs in institutional settings managed and operated by trained professionals who have secured a state license to operate their facilities? In order to obtain that license, the facility operator must promise to comply with a variety of laws, including health and safety and quality of care regulations. The law and our society should expect more from such "caregivers" than the untrained and dysfunctional family member. The breach of standards of decency when directed against our parents by such "professionals" should be punished much more severely by our justice system. In our experience, elder abuse causes despair, hopelessness, feelings of powerlessness, a sense of abandonment and worthlessness. These feelings are not limited to the abused elder but are also experienced by their children. And children also feel betrayed by the nurses and doctors who promised to care for their parents, when family could no longer do so. Very intense feelings of guilt and anger are also experienced by children. Physical injuries sustained by our parents in institutional care settings range from the effects of physical abuse administered by "caregivers" in order to discipline patients, or to coerce patients into complying with the demands of the institution. Such punishment often includes punching, hitting, slapping, throwing patients to the floor, slamming doors and drawers on patients fingers and hands with enough force to break bones. Patients may be denied assistance with feeding, denied medication, including pain management medication, denied clean linen or assistance in reaching the bathroom, denied a response to their call bell, simply left in bed for days, or isolated in their rooms for weeks or months, all in retribution or to enforce facility "discipline." It is more often the case, however, that such services are denied patients because the owners of the facility have chosen not to make sufficient staff, equipment or supplies available to care for their patientsour parents. Boiled down, abuse of our parents usually results from the operators drive for profit. The physical injuries our parents sustain fall into broad categories:
Why do our parents starve to death? Because the facility operator does not provide our parents with assistance in eating. The food tray comes and is left at bedside, but all the debilitated patient can do look at the meal. No one assists the patient in eating!
Physicians are unaccustomed to the requirements for informed consent to prescribe psychoactive medication in skilled nursing facilities. Generally, such requirements do not extend into other types of health facilities, and physicians feel empowered to medicate patients without patient or family consent.
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